Come And Go

以退为进

2010-03-16T01:15:00.000+08:00

以退为进策略是指以退让的姿态作为进取的阶梯，退是一种表面现象，由于在形式上采取了退让，使对方能从己方的退让中得到心理满足，不仅思想上会放松戒备，而且作为回报，对方也会满足己方的某些要求，而这些要求正是己方的真实目的。商务谈判中的以退为进策略表现为先让一步，顺从对方，然后争取主动、反守为攻。

Children Should Be Seen and Not Heard...

2009-10-19T08:50:00.002+08:00

It was a quiet Sunday near Centre Point and I was waiting for Jessey when I saw this little group of children walking their dog happily. While I was reading the papers,I heard this little girl approaching me, asking for a plastic bag. Curious, I questioned what is it for and she told me that their dog had pooh and she wanted to clear the mess. OMG, am I impressed by her civic minded act of cleaning up after her dog. Good Girl, your parents must be so proud of you. And it was a Caucasian group of little children. Well, I have SEEN them and HEARD them too…

Deal or No Deal, You ARE on the Net

2009-07-22T17:24:00.001+08:00

JQ

2009-07-09T13:36:00.003+08:00

Appraisal Versus Resignation

2009-06-02T20:39:00.000+08:00

A newly-joined trainee engineer asks his boss " What is the meaning of appraisal ? "
Boss : " Do you know the meaning of resignation ? "

Trainee : " Yes, I do. "
Boss : " So let me make you understand what an appraisal is by comparing it with resignation. "

Appraisal
In an appraisal meeting they will speak only about your weakness, errors and failures.

During an appraisal you may need to cry and beg for even a 10% pay hike.

During an appraisal, they will deny promotion saying that you did not meet the expectation, you don't have leadership qualities, and that you had several drawbacks in reaching objective/goal.

There is a 90% chance of not getting any significant incentives after appraisal.

Resignation
In a resignation meeting they will speak only about your strengths, past achievements and success.

In a resignation meeting you can easily demand ( or get more without asking ) more than 50-60% pay-hike !

During resignation, they'll say you are the core member of the team; that you are the vision of the company, and so " How can you go ? "; you have to take the project on your shoulders and lead your juniors to success.

There is a 90% chance of getting an immediate pay-hike after you put in your resignation.

Trainee : " Yes, boss, good enough. Now I know what to do. When you are about to do my appraisal, I will resign. "

Have a Break

2009-05-02T12:45:00.000+08:00

In the beginning, God created earth and rested.
Then God created man and rested.
Then God created woman.
Since then, neither God nor man has rested.

1. 首先，上帝创造了地球并且休息了。

2. 然后上帝创造了男人并且休息了。

3. 然后上帝创造了女人。

4. 从那以后，上帝和男人从未休息。

螳螂捕蝉（…黄雀在后）

2009-04-28T08:27:00.001+08:00

螳螂捕蝉（…黄雀在后）

tang2 lang2 bu3 chan2 (...huang2 que2 zai4 hou4).

The mantis stalks the cicada (...unaware of the oriole behind).
Said of someone just pay attention to the profit of doing something,
and do not consider the potential danger involved.

Blinded by greed.

Work

2009-03-22T08:41:00.003+08:00

Daily Job Scope

1. Receiving:

Unload from Supplier / Stock / Ship Spares

Check goods received

Label goods received

Storage at warehouse pending delivery

2. Sending Shipment Overseas:

Consolidate / Ship spares / Charts / Publications / Etc

Listing and Packing of Shipment

List Weight / Dimension of Shipment

Ask for Quotations from Couriers if Shipment is heavy / 60 kg and above

Check Vessel Location / Agent / Consignee Address

Prepare / Print Courier AWB

Prepare Commercial Invoice / Check Declared Value

Seek for Country Origin Cert if not available

Seek for MSDS when required

Print Commercial Invoice / Translate when necessary

Print Shipping Labels

Scan Commercial Invoice / AWB / Country Origin Cert / MSDS

Attach Commercial Invoice / AWB / Country Origin Cert / MSDS to shipment

Attach Shipping Labels to Shipment

Call for Courier pick up / Ask for Booking Reference

Email shipping notes to Agent / Vessel / Dept Heads

File Shipment notes for future reference

3. Shipment to Batam yard vi Britoil Vessels:

Booking of Crane / Berth for Loading

Consolidate / Ship Spares / Charts / Publications Separately for Vessels at Batam ,

Lay Barge, Batam Yard

Pack / Label items separately

Prepare Cargo manifest for Vessel / Batam Yard / TTN Batam

Prepare Delivery notes

Print Cargo manifest / Delivery notes

Scan Cargo manifest / Delivery notes

Attach Delivery notes to shipment

Email to Batam Yard / Titian Batam / Dept Heads

Send shipment to Vessel for Loading

Optional / Redo Cargo manifest if there are last minute changes

Return to Office to redo Cargo manifest and email to Batam Yard / TTNBatam

Return to vessel at Dundee with Amended Cargo Manifest

4. Loading of Stores at Dundee Yard / Vessel Docking in Yard

Booking of Crane / Berth

Inform all suppliers

Self Collection when required

Delivery for Loading

Supervise Loading

5. Issue of PPE / Coveralls / Safety Shoes / Safety Glasses

a. When vessels at Dundee / Overseas

b. Crew Change at Dundee

c. Philippine Agent / Stock / Monthly Basis

d. Jakarta Agent / Stock / Monthly Basis

e. Staff Issue / New / Old

6. Issue of Charts / Publications to Vessels

At Dundee

At Job site / Overseas – Sending Shipment Overseas applies

At Batam yard

7. Stock In / PPE / Coveralls / Safety Shoes / Safety Glasses

Receive from Suppliers

Check Quantity

Storage Stock in items

Update Stock Inventory system

8. Stock Out / PPE / Coveralls / Safety Shoes / Safety Glasses

Crew Change in Singapore / Dundee / Hotel

Pack as per requisition from vessels - Sending Shipment Overseas Applies

Bulaon Philippines Agent Monthy Basis

Titian Jakarta Agent Monthly Basis

Update Stock Inventory system

9. Fork Lift Maintenance / Cleaning

Charge Battery when required

Add Battery Water when required

10. House keeping

Area Cleaning at Warehouse

Office Maintenance as required

Doubts

2009-03-04T20:58:00.001+08:00

Lately, too much of this... Will I ever throw in the towel? Lol, Your guess is as good as mine...

MarineCorp Casualty

2008-12-13T22:00:00.002+08:00

Sad to hear that Chris was away on holiday in China when MarineCorp sank. And only found out about it upon return. OMG what a way to get retrenched at times like these. And the worst is the fact that She was not paid her salary or retrenchment benefits. Looks like a trip to MOM is inevitable... Sad... really sad...

MarineCorp Sinks... Finally

2008-12-08T09:02:00.002+08:00

Received a call from Kenny the other day about the news. Regret to hear this even though I've left the company long ago.

There were more than a few fond memories during my 2 years employment at MarineCorp.
1. Getting to know NanaPok
2. Chatting on MSN
3. Watching NanaPok perform at NDP 2006
4. Apply Citi Bank Visa
5. Flexi Hours at work ( sometimes nothing to do for days in a row,
just watching videos n MSN online}

Anyway, I still believe it will not be the end for Tom. This is not the 1st time and neither will it be the last. Still I do pity Carl (Partner Investor) for sinking so much cash and din really get back much of anything.

My heart also goes out for Cheng Chong and Ivy, Jeffri & Khan.

My sincere Wish for them to find a good alternative job elsewhere.

Fun Pics

2008-11-09T00:29:00.002+08:00

Sunday 9 Nov 2008

2008-11-09T00:28:00.002+08:00

Sleeping soon

It's About Time

2008-02-17T09:23:00.002+08:00

On Friday morning, I finally tendered my resignation. I cannot believe I did just that since joining the company almost 2 years ago. But I believe it was a very wise move.

One Very Long Night with Levina

2007-11-20T11:02:00.000+08:00

1500 send out brisbane shipment
waiting to stsrt collections
flurry of calls back n forth
end result to confirm supply

1700 sfi, song fish, dashmesh, wang fu, nam siang refused orders
1800 collect fm ss kim
1920 draw cash at vivo city
2000 collect fm towsenly
2100 cool link deliver to whse
tpt arrived

2200 ct veg no supply due to miscommunication
2230 arrive PO 22 ship side
wait in line / trailer hv 22 lifts

2345 adv chief mate abt frozen items
0010 start lifting / checking
0200 return to office for 2 bag rice
0300 buy basmati at mustafa
0410 return to vsl with 7 bags rice
0535 knock out

Adjustment

2007-10-30T11:57:00.000+08:00

Finally, got the long awaited salary adjustment... As of September, my new salary is officially $2950.00.. Therefore nett take home pay would be $2360 instead of $2080.00

Now I am closer to buying that Mac Mini for Christmas Ha Ha...

Presently, renovations are still in progress at my new HDB Flat snd I guess if all goes as planned, we should be able to move in sometime around early December...

触摸-陈伟联

2007-04-18T21:49:00.000+08:00

难道爱一个人有错吗

2007-03-25T21:53:00.000+08:00

Why Why Tell Me Why....

Good News

2007-02-07T20:25:00.000+08:00

Test Message

Staring Anew

2007-01-12T10:03:00.000+08:00

Have not been blogging in a long while due to many domestic n mundane problems both at home n at work.. and it doesn’t help esp when a loved one is stricken w some health prob n had to be traversed in n out of TTSH.. sigh… btw I hv noticed that u were being transferred n thats unfortunate.. but dun giv up jus yet… it may be for the better… it pains me for things like these to happen but what else can we do abt it besides looking fwd n improve as the days go by? As for u.. I hv been keeping silent simply bcos I jus dun enjoy wry jokes n sms in the middle of the nite… n w so much happening simultaneously… it’s a wonder Im still lucid abt the things around me…

後來的我們

2006-12-26T17:44:00.000+08:00

回忆像慢慢远离的车灯
我们都带着伤悲的眼神
剩一个人还能不能
唱出最温暖的歌声
谁爱的比较深

从前的我们哭着笑着都总是两个人
后来的我们就连招呼都有一点陌生
从前的我们哭着笑着都相信会永恒
后来的我们为什么不能

爱情是忽然尽头的旅程
我们也只好不舍的转身
而那颗心还能不能
走的像当初般纯真
谁痛的比较深如果爱在我身上
留下伤痕那么不爱更疼

New Song

2006-12-26T17:41:00.000+08:00

知道你昨天心情不是那么好可是我真的没有时间陪你聊我真的很忙你每次都是这么说再给我一个机会好不好可是我能不能够坦白跟你说有时候你给我的压力太多如果你觉得我付出还不够多到底该怎么做每一天都会是情人节两个人一陷入热恋哪一句话能够不甘每一次你都习惯抱歉新的理由都编得不对我又只看见笑脸然后又是抱歉然后又是笑溢满脸然后又说是我都没给你足够空间然后要过几天然后难道要过几年然后我在怀疑爱情哪里会有可以保存的期限我心情不是那么好可是你还是跟我无理取闹为什么你对我的要求这么高你每个希望我没办法做得到你爱不爱我还是我爱错我怎么知道我们以后的结果如果有天你觉得委屈太多不如就分手每一天都不是星期天做完了梦谁在身边电话响了也不想接每一次都像是完结篇演到最后才发现我是独角戏的烂演员然后得到抱歉然后得到眼泪满脸然后得到自己送给自己自我欺骗然后笑也不甜然后也不能说再见然后只是一个不具任何意义话与话的中间的连接点话与话的连接点爱情与聪明没有关联分两边的绝对微笑和眼泪互相抱歉谁都不肯发言然后笑也不甜不能说再见然后笑也不甜

我不杀伯仁，伯仁由我而死

2006-12-22T23:09:00.000+08:00

Is History Repeating Itself??? Oh No !

男人哭吧不是罪

2006-12-16T15:12:00.000+08:00

在我年少的时候
身边的人说不可以流泪
在我成熟了以后
对镜子说我不可以后悔
在一个范围不停的徘徊
心在生命线上不断的轮回
人在日日夜夜撑著面具睡
我心力交瘁
明明流泪的时候
却忘了眼睛怎样去流泪
明明后悔的时候
却忘了心里怎样去后悔
无形的压力压得我好累
开始觉得呼吸有一点难为
开始慢慢卸下防卫
慢慢后悔慢慢流泪
男人哭吧哭吧哭吧不是罪
再强的人也有权利去疲惫
微笑背后若只剩心碎
做人何必惊得那么狼狈
男人哭吧哭吧哭吧不是罪
尝尝阔别已久眼泪的滋味
就算下雨也是一种美
不如好好把握这个机会
痛哭一回
不是罪

Ponder Over This

2006-12-13T00:04:00.000+08:00

Why Some People Have All The Luck

2006-12-07T20:26:00.000+08:00

By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire

Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks they deserve?

A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.

Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.

Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research and over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives and had them take part in experiments.

The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts and behaviour are responsible for much of their good and bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.

I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it and tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying: "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."

This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.

Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected.

As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties intent on finding their perfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs.

Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.

Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think and behave like a lucky person.

Dramatic results! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck.One month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened. The results were dramatic: 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives and, perhaps most important of all, luckier.

The lucky people had become even luckier and the unlucky had become lucky.

Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor".

Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:

1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right

2) Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine

3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well

4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call.Have a Lucky day and work for it.

The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect. Have a nice day!!!

爱我的人和我爱的人

2006-12-06T20:46:00.000+08:00

盼不到我爱的人
我知道我愿意再等
疼不了爱我的人
片刻柔情它骗不了人
我不是无情的人
却将你伤的最深
我不忍我不能
别再认真忘了我的人

离不开我爱的人
我知道爱需要缘分
放不下爱我的人
因为了解他多么认真
为什么最真的心
碰不到最好的人
我不问我不能
拥在怀中直到他变冷

爱我的人为我痴心不悔
我却为我爱的人甘心一生伤悲
在乎的人始终不对
谁对谁不必虚伪
爱我的人为我付出一切
我却为我爱的人流泪狂乱心碎
爱与被爱同样受罪
为什么不懂拒绝痴情的包围

Why Men Cheat...

2006-12-05T21:30:00.000+08:00

Of course, we all know that while men and women are both capable of cheating, it's often the guys who have the biggest problem keeping their belts firmly buckled. And we all know that no matter who it's with, why it's done, or where the after-hours canoodling takes place, cheating is-most of the time-the ultimate relationship death sentence.

But instead of dwelling on what happens after the cheating takes place, one of the ways to perhaps prevent infidelity is by knowing a little bit about why men stray. I'm not offering them as excuses, merely explanations as to what happens in that brain (and other body parts) of his-in hopes that you might be able to prevent it. Here, the top reasons why men cheat:

To Fulfill His Biology:

You know the old anthropological tale. A man's main job, besides killing the saber-tooth, is to spread his seed in order to ensure the survival of his genetic legacy. It's a man's biology to want to wander. Does that mean he should, or that he can't help it? Of course not. But it does mean that a man is going to have strong-extremely strong-biological urges to knock on the doors of neighboring huts. I have had this argument/discussion/conversation with dozens of men and women: Are men predestined to cheat? My answer is no, they're not-despite their biology. But often times, they do have to fight it. Especially after a pitcher and two shots of Jack.
To Get the Attention: News flash: Sure, some guys cheat because, well, maybe the sexual frequency has slowed a bit, and maybe hot-and-heavy happens at home about as often as Rob Schneider gets nominated for an Oscar. But the truth is that plenty of men who are having regular sex with their partner are also having sex with someone else. Why? Because cheating isn't just about the sex. Just as a woman who cheats may be seeking more affection than what she's getting at home, a man often cheats because he's seeking the attention that he no longer gets at home. Part of the allure of the mysterious woman isn't just to find out what she looks like naked; it's that the woman showers the man with flirtations, with seduction, with advances that make him feel like he's worthy of more than just fixing dents in the drywall.

To Get Out:

I know lots of guys who simply don't have the strength to end it. They may try ("I'm just not happy"), or they may take other tactics to drive a woman away. A lot of guys simply have trouble breaking off relationships because they don't want to be perceived as that bad guy, the jerk, the insensitive lout who ended something good. So they tiptoe around the issue in hopes that she'll get so frustrated that she'll back out first. Well, if that doesn't work, then a man knows that the only way out is to commit the relationship sin that drives a woman away for good. It's not right, but it's what happens.

To Change Up His Play List:

Think about what's on your iPod. You have your favorite songs you play over and over, but every once in a while, you're in the mood to hear something you haven't played in a long time. You don't need to hear it but once every month or so, but still, you appreciate the changeup. Relationships need to be like good iPods lists. You're comfortable with your routine and you like your routine, but it's always nice to change things up. What men really want in relationships (and what I suspect women also want) is to be able to take comfort in the routine of a long-term commitment, as long as there are some surprises that make it feel like a new relationship every once in a while. In order to keep the relationship strong, you've got to change the songs every once in a while. That goes for in the bedroom and out...

What Is Your Answer ?

2006-12-05T21:04:00.000+08:00

Good one......

Try this test!!!! It doesn't hurt to take a hard look at yourself from time to time.This little test should get you started.

During a visit to the mental asylum, a visitor asked the Director for the criteria used to define a patient who needs to be institutionalized.

"Well," said the Director, "we fill up a bathtub, we offer a teaspoon, a teacup, and a bucket to the patient and ask the patientto empty the bathtub."

1. Would you use the spoon?
2. Would you use the teacup?
3. Would you use the bucket?

"Oh, I understand," said the visitor.

"A normal person would choose the bucket as it is larger than the spoon or the teacup.....

"No," answered the Director. "A normal person would pull the drain plug."

There is a difference between an objective and actions!
Unless you understand your objective, you will be wasting your time in your actions.
Know your objective first.

So what did u answer---spoon, teacup or bucket??? :-):-):-)

如果爱情是饵，我们都是鱼...

2006-12-03T22:40:00.000+08:00

问世间饵为何物，直教鱼生死相许！饵的诱惑是无穷的，让我们每条鱼儿都心甘情愿的上钩。

理智的鱼儿不会饥不择食，见饵就吃，见钩就上。这世上的饵有无数，鱼有无数，关键在你咬住的是否是最适合你的。聪明的鱼会首先对自己面前的饵进行全面的分析，包括色香味甚至是原料成分营养等，看它是否符合自己的口味，是不是自己可以用一生来吃的那种类型。更有思想前卫的鱼儿们开始了试吃的行为来确定一下自己的选择是否可靠。尽管也遭到大多数鱼儿的反对，但这是个人自由，谁也无法干涉。

更有有备而来的鱼儿会用很长的时间来考察摸底，看自己中意的饵是否同时也吸引了别的鱼儿,若有还要展开一场激烈的争夺战，使出浑身解数背水一战，来确立自己的霸主地位，谁笑到最后,谁笑的最美。失败者只有拖着疲惫的身心去寻找下一个目标了。

在走过以上历程后，没有鱼会满足于整天看着香气扑鼻的饵作壁上观，都想品尝到它的滋味，于是便选择了上钩。上钩是绝对自愿的，所以上钩后的生活如何绝对没有任何理由埋怨别人。

痛并快乐着，这是上钩的感觉。但是痛和快乐的比例如何，却因鱼而异。

在钩上的漫长岁月里，有的鱼发现快乐是短暂的，而痛是刻骨的，于是便选择了逃跑。也许它会找到下一个饵，但是第一次上钩的经历他一定终生难忘，鱼钩穿唇而过留下的那个空洞也不会因时间的流逝而愈合，他会永远存在。如果它生命中的下一个饵在尝过之后才发现连第一个都不，它就会吟一句曾经沧海难为水，并用一生的时间来怀念它的曾经。

有的鱼会感觉痛和快乐是平分秋色，于是便陷入两难，欲罢不能，看着海中那些争先恐后来咬饵的年轻的鱼儿们，便感慨上钩是进了围城，里面的想出来，外面的想进来。

也有在钩上优哉游哉快乐无比的鱼儿，钩是它们的保护伞，海里无论掀起怎样的狂风巨浪，钩上的鱼儿都不必随波逐流，避免了流离失所的痛苦。这是世界上可以称之为智者的鱼儿，也许它也曾发现这饵吃起来的滋味并不如想象中那样可口，但是它会在不改变原料的基础上稍做加工，添上一些作料使它更合自己的口味。时间久了，当初再色香味俱全的饵也会失去当年的新鲜，智者的鱼儿不会因此而弃之不顾，他会知道自己的选择，重要的是饵所给自己的营养和入口的滋味，是自己一生都需要的。

这是最理想的状况，鱼口中含着饵，一起慢慢变老，直到有一天一起从这茫茫海中销声匿迹。也许没有人在意他们的曾经存在，但是他们自己知道生命中曾经有过的幸福和快乐。更何况还有海中游来游去的小鱼儿，那是他们生命的延续。小鱼儿们在海中，又开始了新一轮咬饵上钩的历程。

如果爱情是饵，我们都是鱼。

Do You Know ???

2006-12-01T23:14:00.000+08:00

不是因为寂寞才想你，而是因为想你才寂...

So Sorry You Have Been Transferred...

2006-11-30T20:35:00.000+08:00

Have Courage to accept new challenge... The Lord will be with You...

Finally...

2006-11-26T00:25:00.000+08:00

Finally... taking a long break w a trip to Malacca next week... found a buyer that offered $400 K for my present 5 rm I HDB flat... had my teeth scaled n polished so that i can smile proudly... had some small change coming w more to come next week...

Don't Even Think About It...

2006-11-24T08:24:00.000+08:00

Dental Appointment

2006-11-22T23:40:00.000+08:00

Finally, manage to "find" the time to do something about my dental health... OMG it really hurts both physically n financially... costs $45 for scaling n polish but since this is my 1st visit in years... it will need more than jus a visit to really do a good polishing...

Next appointment is tml @5.30 pm... hope i can make it... Now it feels so good on some of the region n it looks presentably white too but only on the upper level... as for the rest, i leave it to your imagination how they look.. Lol

Enjoy the song... Liang Shan Po & Juliet / Cao Ge

Performance Evalution

2006-11-19T15:07:00.000+08:00

Dear MD,

While working with my manager, I have always found him
working hard and sincerely at his table without idling or
gossiping with colleagues in the office. He seldom
wastes his time on useless things. Given a job, he always
finishes the given assignment in time. He will always be
deeply engrossed in his official work, and can never be
found chit-chatting in the canteen. He has absolutely no
vanity in spite of his high accomplishment and profound
knowledge of his field. I think he can easily be
classed as outstanding, and should on no account be
dispensed with. I strongly feel that my manager should be
pushed to accept promotion,and a proposal to administration be
sent out as soon as possible.

A Nice Evalution Report.. Now read again just line 1,3,5,7,9,11 & 13 for the true report

When You Say Nothing At All

2006-11-17T13:31:00.000+08:00

It's amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word you can light up the dark
Try as I may I can never explain
What I hear when you don't say a thing

The smile on your face let's me know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all

All day long I can hear people talking out loud (oh…)
But when you hold me near (oh, hold me near)
You drown out the crowd (drown out crowd)
Try as they may, they can never defy
What's been said between your heart and mine
The smile on your face let me know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all…

oh Oh, the smile on your face let's I know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best, when you say nothing at all
You say it best, when you say nothing at all
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (The smile on your face)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (The truth in your eyes) (The touch of your hand) You say it best, when you say nothing at all (Let me know that you need me)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)
You say it best, when you say nothing at all (nothing at all)

" And now we got nothing to say liao... Sigh.. So sad... "

有心栽花花不开无心插柳柳成荫

2006-11-16T06:58:00.000+08:00

有心栽花花不开; 无心插柳柳成荫...

Did I Marry The Right Person ???

2006-11-14T09:38:00.000+08:00

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.

She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered, "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated his call, wanted his touch and liked his idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there, doing nothing. Then something came along and happened to you. Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens) and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when marriages break down. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extra-marital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, religion, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY, you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

The Key To Succeeding In Marriage Is Not Finding The Right Person; It's Learning To Love The Person You Found. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labour of love" ... because it takes time, effort and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable ...you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Letter From A Friend...

2006-11-13T16:56:00.000+08:00

Hi there, wah liao oi.. long time nv hear fm you wor... Are u still alive? So wad hv u been doing all these time? Last I heard you broke some rules n was kinda like punished.. Sigh.. actually I foresaw that coming yr way.. its jus dat I din wan to warn u n jus let u discern whether or not it was the right thing to do.. Now wad, so u lost a friend... big deal... get over it lah... Knowing u to be like a "Ranger", im sure u can stand up again v soon since this little fall is nothing compared to the last one in 1988? Remember?

Sometimes, I dun understand why u bother to spend so much time online.. really so interesting meh? Pls get real wor... besides u r not getting any younger le... im sure theres more meaningful pursuits than cyber searching for....(Hmm i wonder wad....)

Ok ok, i shant be so cheong hei... i know u hated dat... but honestly if only you'd jus listen.. n u shall hear wad the real truth... nvm wad others think.. jus be yrself... basically, u r not a bad person except u may get carried away sometimes.. n dat can be bad... cos not evryone see things yr way.. So do take care ok? If u need me, u know where to find me... Lol

All the best for yr Malacca trip next week... Wei, get some local treats for me hor...

Best Regards....

好心分手

2006-11-11T08:46:00.000+08:00

(女):是否很惊讶讲不出说话没错我是说你想分手吗
曾给你驯服到就像绵羊何解会反咬你一下你知吗
(男):也许该反省不应再说话被放弃的我应有此报吗
如果我曾是个坏牧羊人能否再让我试一下抱一下
(女):回头望伴你走从来未曾幸福过
(男):恨太多没结果往事重提是折磨
(女):下半生陪住你怀疑快乐也不多
(男):被我伤让你痛
(女):好心一早放开我从头努力也坎坷统统不要好过
(男):为何唱着这首歌为怨恨而分手问你是否原谅我
(女):若注定有一点苦楚不如自己亲手割破

(男):回头吧不要走不要这样离开我
恨太多没结果往事重提是折磨
(女):下半生陪住你怀疑快乐也不多
没有心别再拖好心一早放开我
从头努力也坎坷统统不要好过
(男):为何唱着这首歌为怨恨而分手问你是否原谅我
(女):若勉强也分到不多不如什么也摔破
(男):好心分手每天播
(女):可知歌者也奈何
(女):难行就无谓再拖好心一早放开我从头努力也坎坷统统不要好过
(男):为何唱着这首歌为怨恨而分手问你是否原谅我
(女):若注定有一点苦楚不如自己亲手割破

An Apple A Day; Keep The Blues Away...

2006-11-07T14:59:00.000+08:00

How could something be so small n yet so beautiful? Love my Ipod Shuffle... Its cute n very user friendly... But trying to transfer songs from the PC can be a hustle at times... PC mus hv Itunes Version 7 installed.. other than dat, its jus a matter of copy n paste... Charging the internal battery is via USB (cable supplied) So to save some energy dollars, connect it to the Office PC.. It is dat simple... Charge 4 hours n it can last 12, playing all 240 of yr fav songs...

Ipod Shuffle

2006-11-05T22:38:00.000+08:00

Finally, Epic@Orchard called to say my Ipod Shuffle is ready for collection... And its abt time too... It is simple in design n yet beautiful... And it is v small n light too... Although it comes in only 1 GB memory space which is gd for abt 240 songs... i think it is gd enuf...

Now lets see wads the next beauty product they produce... Keep it Up ! Apple Rocks...

It says in the manual a full charge will take abt 4 hours.. mm but in my case its been longer than that but the light is still amber... Dun tell me this unit is faulty? Lets jus wait n see...

My All

2006-10-29T22:17:00.000+08:00

I am thinking of you In my sleepless solitude tonight
If it’s wrong to love you Then my heart just won’t let me right
Cause I’ve drowned in you And I won’t pull through
Without you by my side
I’d give my all to have Just one more night with you
I’d risk my life to feel Your body next to mine
Cause I can’t go on Living in the memory of our song
I’d give my all for your love tonight

Baby can you feel me Imagining I’m looking in your eyes
I can see you clearly Vividly emblazoned in my mind
And yet you’re so far Like a distant star I’m wishing on tonight

I’d give my all to have Just one more night with you
I’d risk my life to feel Your body next to mine
Cause I can’t go on Living in the memory of our song
I’d give my all for your love tonight

I’d give my all to have Just one more night with you
I’d risk my life to feel Your body next to mine
Cause I can’t go on Living in the memory of our song
I’d give my all for your love tonight
Give my all for your love Tonight

What Happened ?

2006-10-26T14:08:00.000+08:00

There it is again Replaying in my mind
All those memories In my head it all unwinds
Every single joke we had Every smile you gave me
Things seemed to be unbreakable But maybe I was just fooled easily
We used to talk so much Every day that went by
But slowly it started counting down And I can't explain why
It's just as the summer hit We grew so far apart
Avoidance fell between us Distancing our hearts

You were such a great friend One who was always there for me
You listened and cared so much How did days like that break free?
I wanna get a hold of this But it's already drifted so far
I wish it wouldn't come to this I don't want things to be how they are
I try to strike up conversations But they don't last long
Before we could talk for hours I can't figure out what went wrong
So here I'm pleading with myself Hoping you'll hear my voice
I never wanted to say good-bye But I didn't have a choice...

有一点动心

2006-10-25T20:45:00.000+08:00

张:我和你男和女都逃不过爱情
谁愿意有勇气不顾一切付出真心

刘:你说的不只你还包括我自己
该不该再继续该不该有回应让爱一步一步靠近

张:我对你有一点动心却如此害怕看你的眼睛
有那么一点点动心一点点迟疑不敢相信我的情不自禁

刘:我对你有一点动心不只结果是悲伤还是喜
有那么一点点动心一点点迟疑害怕爱过以后还要失去

合:难以抗拒喔人最怕就是动了情虽然不想不看也不听却陷入爱里

(音乐演奏)

合:我和你男和女都逃不过爱情也许应该放心让爱一步步靠近

Those Are What Others Want / Xiao Xue

2006-10-23T23:47:00.000+08:00

不能少了鲜花或是问候电话最好能锁在一起证明爱不虚假从开始就知道相爱是两份孤独互相陪伴的路也许那些别人要的对我们并不完全适合我只要心深处有你的温热也许拥抱才有角色也许激情才不苦涩那些是别人要的你不必附和总要表现的在乎看见历程心路透明的却不知道有些话反问自己更清楚我从来不怀疑终究是两分孤独才让此刻难得

Xiao Xue / Every Word

2006-10-23T23:44:00.000+08:00

曾遇挫折失败旁人不理我呼嗌全因你某天舒我愁怀我已深深了解但你忘情将爱活埋何解不理这心态还请紧记车厢中拥吻 i will love you till i die 无缘无份怎可分解痴心一片原是孽债悠悠长夜记起每句说话 how i love you my darling how i miss you 宁愿永远失败来填补对你的债仍想起某天几段情怀 i still love you till i die i still love you till i die

http://music.yule.com.cn/special/msp_1154.htm

Virtual Reality...

2006-10-21T23:09:00.000+08:00

仅仅是一阵风也罢了，却偏偏这么永恒。
仅仅是一个梦也罢了，却偏偏这么真实。
你低头不语，我百受煎熬

学生“四头”

2006-10-21T23:04:00.000+08:00

班里比赛充大头，
老师提问低下头，
每逢考试伸伸头，
成绩不好摇摇头！

横眉冷对考试卷，眼睛直对钢笔尖，
英雄不怕打零蛋，挺直胸脯交白卷。

Total Recall

2006-10-20T23:23:00.000+08:00

I was reviewing some songs in my library and suddenly this one jus pops out playing... was it deliberate, accidental or natural reflex that trigger this song? Sigh.. I really dun know wor... And suddenly, memories jus came flooding back...

Its been barely 2 months since NDP but things hv change so much... Lost a unique fren for some stupid reasons on my part... perhaps it was never meant to last anyway... sometimes i cant help wondering how is my fren doing... i find it difficult to finish this entry... wads the point? would it matter? i dun know... neither can i help it... that it ended this way... i can only hope that God in his mercy will forgive me for all that has happened... Perhaps its that video i did not send... haha n it was even converted in the 1st place... things happened too fast n too furious, there wasnt enough time to really think... whats happening???????

Actually You Dun Understand My Heart

2006-10-15T23:14:00.000+08:00

你说我像云捉摸不定
其实你不懂我的心
你说我像梦忽远又忽近
其实你不懂我的心
你说我像谜总是看不清
其实我永不在乎掩藏真心
怕自己不能负担对你的深情
所以不敢靠你太近
你说我像云捉摸不定
其实你不懂我的心
你说我像梦忽远又忽近
其实你不懂我的心
你说我像谜总是看不清
其实我永不在乎掩藏真心
怕自己不能负担对你的深情
所以不敢靠你太近
你说要远行暗地里伤心
不让你看到哭泣的眼睛

Four Friends & Their Sons....

2006-10-13T21:43:00.000+08:00

Four friends, who hadn't seen each other in 30 years, reunited at a party. After several drinks, one of the men had to use the rest room. Those who remained talked about their kids.

The first guy said, "My son is my pride and joy. He started working at a successful company at the bottom of the barrel. He studied Economics and Business Administration and soon began to climb the corporate ladder and now he's the president of the company. He became so rich that he gave his best friend a top of the line Mercedes for his birthday."

The second guy said, "Darn, that's terrific! My son is also my pride and joy. He started working for a big airline, and then went to flight school to become a pilot. Eventually he became a partner in the company, where he owns the majority of its assets. He's so rich that he gave his best friend a brand new jet for his birthday."

The third man said: "Well, that's terrific! My son studied in the best universities and became an engineer. Then he started his own construction company and is now a multimillionaire. He also gave away something very nice and expensive to his best friend for his birthday: A 30,000 square foot mansion."

The three friends congratulated each other just as the fourth returned from the restroom and asked: "What are all the congratulations for?"

One of the three said: "We were talking about the pride we feel for the successes of our sons. What about your son?"

The fourth man replied: "My son is gay and makes a living dancing as a stripper at a nightclub." The three friends said: "What a shame... what a disappointment."

The fourth man replied: "No, I'm not ashamed. He's my son and I love him. And he hasn't done too badly either. His birthday was two weeks ago, and he received a beautiful 30,000 square foot mansion, a brand new jet and a top of the line Mercedes from his three boyfriends."

I AM A Sweet Little Thing...

2006-10-11T21:42:00.000+08:00

A Mad Man n His Toy

2006-10-11T06:21:00.000+08:00

Now that He's got our attention.. What shall we do about him?

你到底爱着谁 / Who You Really Love

2006-10-10T14:06:00.000+08:00

一个人喝醉好想找个人来陪
Alone getting drunk, feel like getting some company

我们之间有太多的误会
Between Us there’s just too much misunderstanding

爱不能再沉睡
Love cannot be dormant any longer

是可悲是摧毁
Is it sorrow or disparage

我不要再为谁掉眼泪
I dun want to shed tears for anyone else

爱过才后悔想要用酒来麻醉
When love is gone, there’s only regret and to get drunk

我们之间有太多的误会
Between Us there’s just too much misunderstanding

爱不能再沉睡
Love cannot be dormant any longer

是可悲是摧毁
Is it sorrow or disparage

我不要再为谁而心碎
I dun want to be heart broken for anyone else

求求你给我个机会
Begging you to give me another chance

不要再对爱说无所谓
And dun say never mind about love

如果相爱是完美
If love is perfect

就让我们用真心去面对
Then let us face it sincerely

求求你给我个机会
Begging you to give me another chance

不要再对爱说无所谓
And dun say never mind about love

留下了太多伤悲
Leaving behind too much sorrow

告诉我你到底爱着谁
Please tell me WHO you really love…

我终于失去了你 / I Finally Lost You

2006-10-07T21:59:00.000+08:00

当所有的人离开我的时候
你劝我要耐心等候
并且陪我渡过生命中最长的寒冬
如此地宽容
当所有的人靠紧我的时候
你要我安静从容
似乎知道我有一颗永不安静的心
(我)容易蠢动
我终于让千百双手在我面前挥舞
我终于拥有了千百个热情的笑容
我终于让人群被我深深的打动
我却忘了告诉你
你一直在我心中
啊~我终于失去了你
在拥挤的人群中
我终于失去了你
当我的人生第一次感到光荣
啊~我终于失去了你
在拥挤的人群中
我终于失去了你
当我的人生第一次感到光荣

当四周的掌声如潮水一般的汹涌
我看见你眼中伤心的泪光闪动

First Love / Japanese Version

2006-10-06T20:47:00.000+08:00

Artist: Utada Hikaru
Song: First Love

Saigo no kisu wa ka ba tabako no flavor ga shita
Nigakute setsunai kaori

Ashita no imagoro ni wa
Anata wa doko ni irun darou
Dare wo omotterun darou

You are always gonna be my love
Itsuka darekato mata koi ni ochitemo
I'll remember to love you taught me how
You are always gonna be the one
Ima wa mada kanashii love love songu
Atarashii uta utaeru made

Tachidomaru jikan ga
Ugoki dasouto shiteru
Wasuretakunai kotobakari

Ashita no imagoro niwa
Watashi wa kitto naite iru
Anatawo omotterun darou

You will always be inside my heart
Itsumo anata dake no basho ga aru kara
I hope that I have a place in your heart too
Now and forever you are still the one
Ima wa mada kanashii love love song
Atarashii uta utaeru made

You are always gonna be my love
Itsuka darekato mata koi ni ochitemo
I'll remember to love you taught me how
You are always gonna be the one
Mada kanashii love love song
Now and forever

Devastated... On the brink of Breakdown?

2006-10-06T13:06:00.000+08:00

I Feel Sorry For You...

On the surface, u seem strong, lively, vibrant n daring even to the point of defiant... but within is demure...frighten... confused... lost... and dat makes u dangerous... to yrself n others...

好心分手

2006-10-04T22:22:00.000+08:00

1
你没有想过我会说分手
也许太习惯我在你左右
虽然离开你有很多理由
可看见你这样惊讶也足够

2
你没有想过我会说分手
除非以为我甚么都忍受
就算你这时候努力挽留
不过是你不能接受我先走

我想得比你多
陪你一起更寂寞
我性格比你强
怎样做你的绵羊
我年纪比你小
不信快乐找不到
抬起头开了口
最后我比你骄傲
从此不坐你的牢
想不到你的好
记得和你的争吵
想到老可到老
可是和你做不到
如果你爱得比我少
至少我走得比你早

轰轰烈烈地开口
最后我比你骄傲
从此不坐你的牢
想不到你的好
记得和你的争吵
想到老可到老
可是和你做不到
如果你爱得比我少
幸好我走得还早

如果没有你

2006-10-01T17:52:00.000+08:00

hey我真的好想你
现在窗外面又开始下着雨
眼睛干干的有想哭的心情
不知道你现在到底在哪里
hey我真的好想你
太多的情绪没适当的表情
最想说的话我应该从何说起
最想说的话我该从何说起
你是否也像我一样在想你
如果没有你
没有过去我不会有伤心
但是有如果还是要爱你
如果没有你
我在哪里又有什么可惜
反正一切来不及
反正没有了自已
hey我真的好想你
不知道你现在到底在哪里

你是否也像我一样在想你

那麼愛你為什麼 - 黃品源／莫文蔚

2006-10-01T17:07:00.000+08:00

曲︰HAN JIN WOO／AHN JEUNG HUN
詞︰李宗盛
編︰K.S.MEDLA

＊男︰離開你是傻是對是錯
是看破　是軟弱　這結果　是愛是狠
或者是甚麼　如果是種解脫
怎麼會還有眷戀在我心窩
那麼愛你為甚麼

女︰從女性觀點讓我明白地說
無論你是挖心掏肺呼天搶地或是熱情如火
不只白白惹人討厭　讓人嫌你囉唆
恨不得沒跟你認識過
你講也講不聽　聽又聽不懂
懂也不會做　做也做不好
你現在唱個這樣的歌
你到底是想對我說甚麼

＃男︰面對陌生疑惑　肯定困難的生活
過去的日子　彷彿偷偷在笑我
笑我的落魄　也笑我的執著
也許吧　他愛妳比我多

重唱　＊

Music

女︰有太多男女就像你就像我
年紀輕輕開始拍拖純純的愛或者天雷地火
眼看卿卿我我　眼看情海生波
最終日子還得往下過
你可以說我冷漠　或是怪我刻薄
我倒想等著看　你沒我絕不能活
你現在唱個這樣的歌
你以為我們之間還會有甚麼?

重唱　＃,＊,＊

The Yellow Ribbon Project

2006-09-29T20:58:00.000+08:00

http://www.yellowribbon.org.sg

Injury

2006-09-29T06:40:00.000+08:00

got an accidental cut today n lost some precious blood... sigh... n the "bleeding" / "pain" has not stopped...

Because of You / Kelly Clarkson

2006-09-27T20:42:00.000+08:00

I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way, to never let it get that far

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side
So I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust
Not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake, a smile, a laugh
Every day of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side
So I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust
Not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

I watched you die
I heard you cry
Every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry
In the middle of the night
For the same damn thing

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side
So I don't get hurt
Because of you
I tried my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid

Because of you
Because of you

Friend or Foe - You decide...

2006-09-27T09:30:00.000+08:00

Don't flatter yourself that friendship authorizes you to say disagreeable things to your intimates. The nearer you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and courtesy become. Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to learn unpleasant things from his enemies; they are ready enough to tell them.

He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare,And he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere.

A good friend can tell you what is the matter with you in a minute. He may not seem such a good friend after telling.

The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.

Do not protect yourself by a fence, but rather by your friends.

Never explain--your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway.

Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.

When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends.

Go through your phone book, call people and ask them to drive you to the airport. The ones who will drive you are your true friends. The rest aren't bad people; they're just acquaintances.

In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends.

The advice of friends must be received with a judicious reserve; we must not give ourselves up to it and follow it blindly, whether right or wrong.

Reveal not every secret you have to a friend, for how can you tell but that friend may hereafter become an enemy. And bring not all mischief you are able to upon an enemy, for he may one day become your friend.

Friends may come and go, but enemies accumulate.

Funeral

2006-09-25T23:49:00.000+08:00

went to one today.. to see my uncle 1 last time... OMG... he lost so much weight... Pls; is dat really him? with the hollow cheeks n short paste of white hair... Oh Uncle Tony... I miss u so much... And i believe the most painful one is my aunty Annie... very so often she would pull herself over to his side n talk to him as if he's listening... OMG my heart really goes out to her... :-( thankfully my cousins raymond n wendy are taking it very well... thanks couz for being brave n put on a strong front... i am sure you all will overcome this sad episode over a period of time... sori if u missed seeing me... no i did not leave early... how could i? it's jus dat i need some time to gather my thoughts n keep calm... it was peacefully quiet in the vast church grounds.. really cool with breeze caressing the soul... it was then i let go n weep... for Uncle Tony, Aunt Annie, Wendy n U... sadly oso for myself...

Evaluation

2006-09-25T13:05:00.000+08:00

As I stood there, watching the people around me rushing through the day, angry telephones ringing, resounding into the night's crisp thin air, I wondered if I really was standing there. With or without you, time inevitably goes by.

Was I the one seizing every second, standing still, listening, watching, contemplating? Or was I the one, missing the moment, captivated by the sights and sounds, unable to move, unwilling to move, nowhere to go, no one to see, no plans to fulfill, no home to go to?

Like a large rock in a stream, too heavy to be carried, diving the flow, there I stood in the middle of nowhere. Would it matter if I were alive? Would it make a difference now? Would it be for the better if I did not do what I did? Now, now, what exactly did I do? Was is such a heinous deed?

A Tribute To You Uncle Tony... Psalm 23

2006-09-24T22:02:00.000+08:00

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. 2 He maketh me to lie down in green [1] pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. 3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. 4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. 5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest [2] my head with oil; my cup runneth over. 6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever. [3]

月亮惹的祸

2006-09-24T13:34:00.000+08:00

都是你的错轻易爱上我
让我不知不觉满足被爱的虚荣
都是你的错你对人的宠是一种诱惑
都是你的错在你的眼中
总是藏著让人又爱又怜的朦胧
都是你的错你的痴情梦像一个魔咒
被你爱过还能为谁蠢动
我承认都是月亮惹的祸
那样的月色太美你太温柔
才会在刹那之间只想和你一起到白头
我承认都是誓言惹的祸
偏偏似糖如蜜说来最动人
再怎么心如钢也成绕指柔

都是你的错轻易爱上我让我不知不觉满足被爱的虚荣
都是你的错你对人的宠是一种诱惑
都是你的错在你的眼中总是藏著让人又爱又怜的朦胧
都是你的错你的痴情梦像一个魔咒被你爱过还能为谁蠢动
我承认都是月亮惹的祸
那样的月色太美你太温柔
才会在刹那之间只想和你一起到白头
我承认都是誓言惹的祸偏偏似糖如蜜说来最动人
再怎么心如钢也成绕指柔
怎样的情生意动会让两个人拿一生当承诺
(music)
我承认都是誓言惹的祸
偏偏似糖如蜜说来最动人
再怎么心如钢也成绕指柔
我承认都是月亮惹的祸
那样的月色太美你太温柔
才会在刹那之间只想和你一起到白头
我承认都是誓言惹的祸偏偏似糖如蜜说来最动人
再怎么心如钢也成绕指柔

不再犹豫

2006-09-24T12:21:00.000+08:00

无聊望见了犹豫达到理想不太易
即使有信心斗志却抑止
谁人定我去和留定我心中的宇宙
只想靠两手向理想挥手
问句天机高心中志比天更高
自信打不死的心态活到老
oh…我有我心底故事
亲手写上每段得失乐与悲与梦儿
oh…纵有创伤不退避
梦想有日达成找到心底梦想的世界终可见

谁人没试过犹豫达到理想不太易
即使有信心斗志却抑止
谁人定我去和留定我心中的宇宙
只想靠两手向理想挥手
问句天机高心中志比天更高
自信打不死的心态活到老
oh…我有我心底故事亲手写上每段得失乐与悲与梦儿
oh…纵有创伤不退避梦想有日达成找到心底梦想的世界终可见
oh...亲手写上每段得失乐与悲与梦儿
oh...梦想有日达成找到心底梦想的世界终可见

Courage

2006-09-23T23:40:00.000+08:00

终于做了这个决定别人怎么说我不理只要你也一样的肯定
我愿意天涯海角都随你去我知道一切不容易
我的心一直温习说服自己最怕你忽然说要放弃

爱真的需要勇气来面对流言蜚语
只要你一个眼神肯定我的爱就有意义
我们都需要勇气去相信会在一起
人潮拥挤我能感觉你放在我手心里你的真心

Repeat 1

如果我的坚强任性会不小心伤害了你
你能不能温柔提醒我虽然心太急更害怕错过你

不要再来伤害我

2006-09-23T23:23:00.000+08:00

好难过,这不是我要的那种结果,结果
你说过,这辈子你都不会离开我,离开我
太多太多,让你迷惑最后你还是离开了我
开始沉默,什么都不说就让泪水慢慢的滑落
不要再来伤害我自由自在多快乐
不要再来伤害我我会迷失了自我
yeah……yeah……yeah……yeah……

畏畏缩缩,那不是我不是我要故意闪躲
你不爱我,又回来问是否我们还能重新来过
不要再来伤害我自由自在多快乐
不要再来伤害我我会迷失了自我
yeah……yeah……yeah……yeah……
(不要伤害我)

Music.......

你是你我还是我,各自生活挣脱爱的枷锁
即使我再寂寞,再难过也比从前要好得很多
(求求你不要再来找了)
不要再来伤害我自由自在多快乐
不要再来伤害我我会迷失了自我
不要再来伤害我……

I Don't Regret...

2006-09-23T22:25:00.000+08:00

说好了不回头不想承诺
缘份尽了你别过头
如果还有什么值得我逗留
我想是你爱过我

只是路无尽头都是路过
什么感受我能带走
眼泪可以不流心碎不能救
看我能否得自由

当我松开你的手
一些风沙哽住眼眸
爱你最后一幕却模糊带过
不让疼痛有路追究

我不后悔我曾爱过
只是天涯从此寂寞
远去的渡口彼岸的灯火
人在河流只许漂泊

我不后悔被你爱过
只是不能爱到最后
短暂的幸福拥有就足够
只要舍得就会快乐
会快乐

JB Trip

2006-09-23T21:28:00.000+08:00

It's a beautiful day today.. well though cloudy w lots of haze, it is still beautiful bcos i dun hv to work today ma... so i decided to take a trip into JB with my "better half" jus for the fun of it... set out at abt 9 am, drove to IMM n had breakfast there.. n from there went over to jurong east interchange to take a Yellow bus to JB via 2nd link... bus fare was S$3.50 one way per pax.. n from there in JB there is a free transfer from the bus terminal to Perling Mall / Giant Hypermart... Well after walking ard for awhile, we found that its a bit quiet n nothing much to see.. so on the road again by local bus jus outside the mall... like they said "all roads lead to rome" n here all buses go into town aka Johore Bahru and at 2 RM$ per ticket its quite cheap really..

next stop was right in the centre of JB City Square Shopping Mall.. ah this is where all the action is... plenty of shops n shoppers looking at each other.. by then it was late afternoon n time for dinner liao.. so settled for a fast food joint call Hong Kong Kim Gary.. mm funny name.. but the food was seriously good..

RM$14.90 for a set meal that consist of minestrone soup, palate of chick wing, sausages, ham, fish fillet n spaghetti in black pepper sauce n fz veg.. mmm not bad wor... worth it leh.. n inclusive of 1 ice lemon kopi o too... yummy...

after dinner, its time to go home.. so we took a slow walk from city square to the customs check point n board a SBS 17o...

Woww 1 day gone jus like that...

A Song

2006-09-23T08:51:00.000+08:00

I like to be around you when you're not trying to be somebody and talk about whatever we talk about and I like to hang with you, don't care where we go, what we do, who you know, what you wear or if your hair is blue or purple or pink

you don't have to be cool, don't need to know everything all the time, don't have to be smart, I don't care i just wanna be your friend

it's alright if you're a little bit outta there, I like to go to the mall and walk around with you laughing out loud and tell your cousin is somebody famous and you like to go up to people what they say don't care who we see,you and me will be ok if we don't get caught by security

I'll tell you what i don't, anyone else just having you here you know it helps me you don't have to be cute, don't need to know everything any time, don't have to be tough, its alright if your a little bit out there, I just wanna be your friend

I don't care you don't have to be cool, don't have to be smart, don't have to be tough, don't have to be cute, don't need to know everything all the time, any thing anytime I just wanna be your friend, I like to be around you when you're not trying to somebody

Wedding Card Of An I T Engineer

2006-09-22T14:49:00.000+08:00

Click On Picture For A Better View...

Wireless Setup

2006-09-22T09:17:00.000+08:00

Manage to set up wireless access linking Raji's new Dell PC n Acer Notenook... Quite simple really n secure too... jus need to add the mac id in the router's allowed list n save the settings.. that's it...

As for the notebook, scan for the router n it will connect automatically... but had a little trouble trying to access the printer wirelessly... seems like some sort of hardware conflict here...

Memories 3

2006-09-21T11:00:00.000+08:00

自古离别多伤悲，天涯望断无一人。
相遇虽短情难断，杯酒和泪心沉沉。

难舍亦难分，情深思无尽。
相聚多不易，离别有悲音。
人生何所求？但求情不移。
虽有离别苦，泉水映痴心。

Memories 2

2006-09-21T06:34:00.000+08:00

Come And Go

以退为进

Children Should Be Seen and Not Heard...

Deal or No Deal, You ARE on the Net

JQ

Appraisal Versus Resignation

Have a Break

螳螂捕蝉（…黄雀在后）

Work

Doubts

MarineCorp Casualty

MarineCorp Sinks... Finally

Fun Pics

Sunday 9 Nov 2008

It's About Time

One Very Long Night with Levina

Adjustment

触摸-陈伟联

难道爱一个人有错吗

Good News

Staring Anew

後來的我們

New Song

我不杀伯仁，伯仁由我而死

男人哭吧不是罪

Ponder Over This

Why Some People Have All The Luck

爱我的人和我爱的人

Why Men Cheat...

What Is Your Answer ?

如果爱情是饵，我们都是鱼...

Do You Know ???

So Sorry You Have Been Transferred...

Finally...

Don't Even Think About It...

Dental Appointment

Performance Evalution

When You Say Nothing At All

有心栽花花不开 无心插柳柳成荫

Did I Marry The Right Person ???

Letter From A Friend...

好心分手

An Apple A Day; Keep The Blues Away...

Ipod Shuffle

My All

What Happened ?

有一点动心

Those Are What Others Want / Xiao Xue

Xiao Xue / Every Word

Virtual Reality...

学生“四头”

Total Recall

Actually You Dun Understand My Heart

Four Friends & Their Sons....

I AM A Sweet Little Thing...

A Mad Man n His Toy

你到底爱着谁 / Who You Really Love

我终于失去了你 / I Finally Lost You

First Love / Japanese Version

Devastated... On the brink of Breakdown?

好心分手

如果没有你

那麼愛你為什麼 - 黃品源／莫文蔚

The Yellow Ribbon Project

Injury

Because of You / Kelly Clarkson

Friend or Foe - You decide...

Funeral

Evaluation

A Tribute To You Uncle Tony... Psalm 23

月亮惹的祸

不再犹豫

Courage

不要再来伤害我

I Don't Regret...

JB Trip

A Song

Wedding Card Of An I T Engineer

Wireless Setup

Memories 3

有心栽花花不开无心插柳柳成荫